1. Get a tattoo of a name on your hand just like your dear older brother.
2. Make it your daughter's name.
3. Make it your daughter's name as handwritten by your wife.
"Without passion, man is a mere latent force and possibility, like the flint which awaits the shock of the iron before it can give forth its spark." - Henri Frederic Amiel
Remember to live a life you would die for.
If you survive it, you won.
If it kills you, you didn't lose.